What the Jewish Agency is planning makes perfect sense. It is not news that the best way to connect anyone to Israel is by taking them there. However, there is one glitch. Yes we need to focus on those born in the last 3 decades. But I think we are forgetting that there is a whole other group of people who may never have been to Israel, and have considerable influence on whether teens will go or not. I’m talking about their parents. Without their buy-in, their kids won’t be on that El Al flight to Ben Gurion airport.
According to Jack Wertheimer (The Truth About American Jews and Israel), only 35% of American Jews have visited Israel. The 2000-2001 National Jewish Population Study estimated this number to be 41% of all Jews, and less then 30% of those between the ages of 18 and 54 (today’s 28 to 64 year olds). We can’t just focus on teens. We need to reach out to their parents, the folks who will sign the permission slip. These are the people who came of age in the ‘80s, who grew up with Israel’s image being tarnished by the 1982 Lebanon war, the first Intifada and Gulf War #1. This is a generation that never went to Israel because of the perceived violence and danger. They haven’t had a chance to experience Israel first-hand. They have raised their kids to see Israel as being somewhat important, but are unable to share their own personal impressions. These are the parents of the kids who now attend congregational schools and confirmation programs and who tell me “It’s too dangerous to send my kid to Israel.” These are the folks we need to send there. If they go, their children are more likely to follow.
A flight to Israel during summer (when kids are on vacation) costs over $1000.00 a person. For a family of 4 we’re probably talking over $6000 for everything. I think the time has come to make it easier to get to Israel. We seem to be moving in the right direction with college students and young adults. We’re about to work on getting more teens there. I propose that we create programs that focus on families who have never been to Israel: sort of like Birthright, but for parents and their school-aged children.
